What is circumcision?
Circumcision in men involves the
cutting off of the foreskin protecting the head (or glans) of the penis.
As the only moving part of the penis, the foreskin facilitates sexual
activity. It contains nerve endings that play a part in sexual pleasure
and its glands produce lubricants that help protect both the head of the
penis and the female vagina. It is generally removed for religious
reasons but may take place for medical ones.
Stop you’re making my
eyes water. Why is it such a controversial subject?
Circumcision is a painful subject
in more ways than one. Wars have even been fought over it. Because of
its religious associations, it can be difficult for people to talk about
circumcision on health terms alone. Malehealth, however, deals only
with the health side.
Many men are happy with their
circumcisions but we’ve had emails from men who are suicidal because
of the problems resulting from their circumcision. We even heard from a
terrified fifteen year-old who had been told at school that if his glans
was not visible when he had an erection he would have to be circumcised.
Our doctor’s reaction? ‘Who is teaching this guff?’ If you’re
considering circumcision for yourself or a child, you’ll want to know
all the facts not just the religious ones.
Fact number one is that the
foreskin is perfectly healthy and harmless and, like any other human
tissue, should only be removed for a good reason. Whatever your personal
views on what constitutes good reason, remember that no surgery is
without risk and that circumcision is surgery in a very delicate place
that can fundamentally effect both physical and psychological
well-being.
How many men are
circumcised?
Nobody really knows but
organisations campaigning against it estimate that worldwide about one
in four males are circumcised. National rates vary widely from about 80%
of males in the USA to 2% in Sweden, where non-medical circumcision is
now illegal in children. In the UK, the number of circumcisions for
medical reasons has fallen from 35% of English boys in the 1930s to 6.5%
in the 1980s and today some 12,200 such circumcisions are performed
annually. Some doctors consider that this is still far too many.
What are the medical
reasons for circumcision?
There are three main reasons for
circumcision but doctors disgree on how promptly circumcision should be
offered as the treatment. Some see it as a last resort; others will
suggest it sooner.
- Phimosis
In babies, the foreskin and the glans develop as one, only
separating during childhood. As a result the infant foreskin is
frequently tight and inelastic. Some doctors may suggest
circumcision in these circumstances. Others say that generally the
foreskin loosens by the age of three and that true phymiosis, which
affects fewer than 1% of boys, is very rare before the age of five.
If possible, watchful waiting is
sensible in suspected phimosis because the vast majority of foreskins
loosen themselves naturally. While only 4% of baby boys have a
retractable foreskin, 98-99% of 18 year-olds do. The figures are from
the British Medical Journal, 1993, the same article that revealed that
many surgeons simply cannot tell the difference between an everyday
tight foreskin and true phimosis. More
on phimosis.
- Balanitis
In Balanitis the glans and/or the foreskin become inflamed. It can
affect men of all ages including boys (most commonly around the age
of three or four).
Poor hygiene, a tight foreskin),
skin disorders allergy to products such as soap or washing powder or
to the latex or spermicides in condoms can all damage the skin and, if
this becomes infected, balantitis can develop. Balanitis is not
transmitted sexually but a bacteria called candida which can cause it
is. Sex may also damage the skin. It is best avoided by keeping the
penis clean, especially under the foreskinm but in recurrent cases
circumcision might be offered. More
on balanitis.
- in adults it may be offered as
a treatment if a tight foreskin is making sex painful.
Can circumcision help prevent cancer?
There is little evidence of this.
Circumcision in childhood - but not as an adult - may reduce the risk of
penile cancer but this disease is very rare anyway and the real risk
factors are poor personal hygiene and smoking. Indeed, the countries
with the highest rates of circumcision (USA, for example) are also those
with the highest rates of penile cancer.
Can circumcision reduce the risk of a sexually transmitted
disease (STD) or HIV/AIDS?
Another controversial area. Some
sexually transmitted diseases appear more common in uncircumcised men,
others in circumcised men.
Two particular concerns for
circumcised men are that:
- they are less likely to notice
the symptoms of the STD chlamydia - the incidence of which is
increasing in the UK - so heightening their risk of passing it on;
and,
- they appear more likely to
develop penile warts.
As regards AIDS, the
iinternational not-for-profit health organisation the Cochrane
Collaboration has reviewed all the research into circumcision and HIV
and concluded that that there is insufficient evidence to support the
idea that circumcised men have less chance of contracting HIV. However,
it should be said that not all scientists agree with this.
What everyone agrees on is that
all men can reduce the risk of an STD or HIV by using a condom.
Is circumcision safe?
It is generally accepted that
there are serious complications in perhaps 2% of medical
circumcisions – 1 in 50. (Figures are obviously higher if the surgeon
or hygiene practices are below hospital standard.) Complications include
bleeding, infection, ulceration and psychological and sexual problems.
The operation is generally carried
out under local anaesthetic for boys and general anaesthetic for men.
Usually, the patient is discharged the same day but many describe the
operation and its aftermath as painful.
Is it reversible?
Some men think so. There are
videos and packs available which claim to show circumcised men how to
restore themselves but these should be approached with caution. Click
here for an account from a doctor who successfully restored his
foreskin.
Are there alternative
treatments for a tight foreskin?
Yes. These include steroid creams,
stretching methods and less-invasive surgery. Most physicians will try
these before resorting to circumcision.
Dr Ian Banks, president of the
Men’s Health Forum says: ‘In the UK we circumcise boys and men more
than most other European countries with no real evidence to support the
practice.
You should lubricate your penis
well with a water based jelly and pull the foreskin increasingly further
back until you can achieve a full retraction while the penis is flaccid.
Do not do this with an erect penis as it may prove difficult to bring
the foreskin back to its rightful place. Real eye watering stuff. Once
you can achieve this, and it may be painful, try doing it with the penis
in various stages of increasing erection. Always return the foreskin
immediately. If you leave it retracted while very tight it can cause the
blood to remain inside the penis making it get even bigger (the basis of
'cock rings' and the vacuum device for impotence).’
How can I avoid a tight
foreskin?
You'll like this one. There’s
one very easy way. A study in the British Journal of Sexual Medicine in
1997 of men aged 18-22 found that those with a tight foreskin either
never masturbated or used an unusual technique. Once they did masturbate
in a more conventional way (ie. an up and down motion mimicking sex),
the problem righted itself in a few weeks.
Just so I know, what are the religious reasons?
The majority of religious
circumcisions are carried out among Jewish, Muslim and African tribal
communities.
To Jews, the practice, which is
usually carried out when a boy is eight days old, represents the
covenant between Abraham and God. To Muslims, it as a sign of submission
to God although most do not regard circumcision, which is not mentioned
in the Koran, as obligatory.
Those who oppose religious
circumcision say it is a painful, psychologically damaging and
oppressive tradition designed to subjugate the individual and his or her
sexuality.
What happens when you come?
When you come or ejaculate, white
semen containing sperm comes out of the end of your penis. It can happen
during sex, during masturbation or even during the night in a dream.
It’s perfectly normal.
I come too soon/not soon
enough.
The main problems with ejaculation
are coming too soon or not coming at all. If you come too quickly,
remember this: every young man on the planet has come too soon at some
time. It can be very embarrassing but, like death and taxes, it’s a
fact of life. In twenty years time you’ll be wishing you still had the
problem.
If you're worried about coming too
quickly - this is sometimes called premature ejaculation - click
here. If you're worried about taking
too long to come or not coming at all, click
here.
I’ve got blood in my
semen. Is it serious?
This is can be very scary but is
usually harmless. A bit of rough sex or masturbation can cause it so you
only need to seek help if it keeps on happening. In fact, only one in
five cases have an obvious cause but very, very rarely it can be a sign
of something more serious so see a doctor if it lasts a month or more.
One less serious cause is Orchitis:
the inflammation of one or, more rarely, two testicles, usually as a
result of a bacterial or viral infection. Common causes include mumps -
approximately one in four men who catch mumps will develop orchitis -
and sexually transmitted infections such as chlamydia and gonorrhea. In
epididymo-orchitis, the epididymis - the sperm-carrying tube attached to
the testicle - is also affected.
What
causes an erection?
Well, whatever turns you on
basically but the hard science is this: erections occur when the small
muscles in your penis, which are usually tightly contracted, relax and
let blood start flowing in. The spongy tissue in the penis fills with
blood and expands, pushing against the veins and closing them so the
blood cannot drain out again. Well, you did ask.
Why can't I get an
erection?
There are two things that men
complain about in the erection department – not getting one when you
want one and getting one when you don’t want one.
Not getting an erection when you
want one is usually called erectile dysfunction (ED) or sometimes
impotence. ED is a better description because the problem can usually be
solved. In fact, nearly all men suffer from ED from time to time. The
official estimate is that impotence affects about one in ten men at any
one time. (Incidence increases from about one in 13 in men under 30 to
one in two in men over 70.) But some surveys have put it as high as one
in four.
It’s no big deal. It’s one of
the things about being a flesh and blood human rather than a robot.
Blokes who expect their penises to work like machines have not learned
that yet. Don’t worry about it but don't ignore it either. If it keeps
happening, see a doctor.
Why see a doctor about a
bit of brewer's droop?
Simply because ED can be an early
warning of some serious health problems including:
- heart disease;
- narrow arteries;
- high blood pressure;
- diabetes;
- Peyronie’s Disease;
- multiple sclerosis;
- an injury to the pelvis or
spinal cord;
- heavy drinking or smoking;
- drugs - either the side effects
of prescribed drugs (for example, some antidepressants and drugs for
hypertension) or the abuse of non-prescribed drugs.
Low testosterone levels are seldom
the cause of ED.
Research suggests that men don’t
seek help with ED because they don’t think it can be treated. This is
not true. There are many causes of ED, some physical, some
psychological. You can read all about them here.
There is usually a physical cause
for ED – it is only purely psychological in about 25% cases - but
whatever the cause worrying about sexual performance can make it worse.
Anxiety contracts the muscles preventing blood entering the penis.
If you get erections at night or
when masturbating but have problems with your partner, it’s almost
certainly not a physical problem so just relax. Chances are you’ll
live to at least 80 so there’s plenty of time.
And, as usual, smoking is a
non-no. Nicotine interferes with the flow of blood to the penis making
an erection less likely. Smokers are 50-80% more likely to become
impotent than non-smokers.
- Click
here to download the section on ED from Ian Banks's
best-selling book The Man Manual.
I’ve got an erection all
the time.
Getting erections all the time may
not sound like a problem but it can be. Young men can get sexually
excited very easily so have a lot of erections. This can be embarrassing
but it’s not a problem and when you’re older you’ll probably
remember the days fondly.
However, if your penis
becomes hard for long periods or when you’re not sexually excited you
may have a condition called priapism. The condition is painful, and
requires prompt treatment to avoid the risk of permanent damage to the
penis and ED in the future. (As a guide, any man whose erection
continues for four hours or more, should see a doctor.)
What
is masturbation?
It is rubbing your genitals - in
your case, your penis - for sexual pleasure. Most men masturbate
and, despite what they might say, so do many women. It’s perfectly
normal. After all, our genitals are part of our bodies and pretty
important to our future relationships so it would be surprising if we
weren’t just a little curious about them.
Trying masturbating with your
partner is a really good way to show each other what you like.
But isn't masturbation
bad for you?
No. It is actually good for you.
It will help you understand your body and your sexuality and what turns
you on better. This may help you communicate with your partner more
easily, enjoy sex more and avoid sex-related psychological problems.
Frequent orgasms also help reduce the risk of prostate cancer while
masturbation itself also reduces the likelihood of phimosis, a tightness
of the foreskin. It can also cure a tight foreskin if you have that
problem.
The need for sexual pleasure is a
natural human need, the same as the need for food and drink. When the
urge strikes better to masturbate than exploit someone else with a
one–night stand or visit to a prostitute with all the problems,
ethical as well as sexual, that these can pose.
So are there any dangers
in masturbation?
Your penis is a delicate body part. It is designed to go into other
delicate body parts. Don’t stick it in anything else or stick anything
else into it. Your hand, some massage oil or baby oil and your
imagination should provide all you need.
Nearly every casualty nurse has a
story about a guy who claims to have been cleaning the house naked and
have fallen over onto the vacuum cleaner with embarrassing results. None
of the nurses believe these stories.
Don’t stick things down your
penis either. As anybody who has had a cystoscopy (an examination of the
bladder using a scope inserted through the urethra, the tube down the
middle of your penis) will tell you, it bloody hurts.
Anything that is pleasurable can
become an addiction and masturbation is no different. If it begins to
interfere with the rest of your life and you’re becoming more
interested in it than in real sexual relationships with real people, you
need to be careful. If you can’t stop, you need to. There are
organisations for people who are addicted in this way just as for other
addictions such as Sexaholics
Anonymous.
Is it OK to use
pornography when you masturbate?
When you're a teenager looking at
porn is part of a normal curiosity but using it when you're older
depends on your view of the politics of porn.
It's true that many women enjoy
pornography aimed at heterosexual men including even some of the
women who appear in it. But as with prostitution this is not always
the case and there is a lot of abuse of women in the porn industry. The
problem is is that by definition, pornography exploits women by treating
them as objects for sexual pleasure. Because you can't avoid that,
you’re probably better off skipping pornography if you can when
masturbating as it may affect your attitudes to women and spoil your
relationships with them.
Why
do I have blood in my urine?
Is it definitely blood? If you
have not been drinking enough water your urine can begin to look brown.
Certain foods, like beetroot or certain drugs can also make your urine
change colour.
A heavy work-out can cause the
urine to look red. It’s not actually blood but if it happens while
you’re exercising or keeps happening you’ll want to see your doctor.
If it is blood and it keeps
appearing in your urine it could be an infection of the urinary tract or
it could be the sign of something more serious such as a prostate
problem. See your doctor and try to take a urine sample.
Why does it sting when I
pee?
This could also be a mild
infection or a sign of a prostate or kidney problem. It could also be a
sign of a sexually
transmitted disease. If it persists, see your doctor.
Do I piss too often?
Only you know what has been normal
for you in the past and obviously, if you drink more you will urinate
more but as a very general rule of thumb, a man peeing 3-5 times a day
and no more than once at night is doing OK. If you are peeing more often
or have other symptoms such as pain, a slow start, a weak or
intermittent flow, a trickly finish or a feeling that you haven’t
finished when you have or you are urinating when you don't intend to
then you should see your doctor. It may be a sign of something more
serious like a prostate
problem or diabetes.
What
is the penis made of?
The penis is basically three
cylinders of spongy erectile tissue full of blood vessels. The urethra,
the body’s outlet tube for both sperm and urine (although only one at
a time), passes through the middle of the smallest of these - the corpus
spongiosum - which is found on the underside of the penis. The corpus
spongiosum expands at the tip to form the head of the penis called the
glans. The glans is protected by the foreskin.
My penis is too small/too
big/the wrong shape.
Penises come in all shapes and
sizes with bumps and bends and visible veins, the lot. Genuine problems
that might actually stop you peeing or enjoying sex are rare and usually
picked up when you're very young - so, if you got through the nappy
stage you're probably good to go.
Whatever their size to begin with,
all penises, when they're erect, are about the same length (between
about five and a half and six and a quarter inches long). But it's no
big deal. As the vagina can be big enough to let a baby out or small
enough to hold a tampon, it can cope with any willy size without
loss of performance.
The size of the penis also varies
a lot depending who measures it. In surveys when a doctor measures, the
size drops by up to 50% compared to surveys where the owners of the
penis measure them!
If you’re worried about your
penis size, have a proper look at it. When you look at your penis
normally you’re looking down on it. Think about it. It’s like
looking down on someone from the top of a building. Even basketball
players look small when you look down on them from above. Hold a mirror
at the side and have a proper look. That’s more the sort of the view
you get of another bloke’s willy in the public lavatory. Honestly,
very, very few men have willies that are too small or too big to have
great sex with.
Penile enlargement operations are,
like any other surgery, potentially dangerous and you only have one
penis. Liver transplants, kidney transplants and heart transplants are
all possible. Penis transplants are not. Don’t risk it.
Anyway, many enlargement
operations tend only to make your penis look bigger when limp not when
erect. Dr Ian Banks, the Men’s Health Forum’s president says of
penis enlargement: ‘Most claims from commercial organisations are
either overblown or inaccurate.’ Words like butchers and comboys come
to mind.
Why is my erect penis
bent?
Every penis is bit bent and a
slight bend upwards is not just normal but desirable.
You may have a problem if your
penis is bent to the left or right so much as to make it difficult or
even painful to enter your partner during sex. It could be
condition called Peyronie’s. This is not an Italian beer. Bent
willies are very common and generally do not cause any problem with
intercourse. It’s a matter of finding what fits, so to speak. If the
‘bend’ is particularly bad, surgery can improve matters. More
of Peyronie's Disease.
Why is my penis itchy?
Depending on where exactly it
itches, there are a couple of possibilities
If it itches on the glans and this
is red and sore, it may be balanitis. (Greek for inflammation of the
acorn!) Possible causes include poor hygiene, sensitivity to a new soap
or shower gel or having sex with a woman with thrush. Try washing your
penis carefully in warm, salty water.
It could also be caused by a skin
disease like psoriasis. If you think you may have this, see your doctor.
If it’s elsewhere in the groin
area, it could be jock itch which is caused by the same fungus as
athlete’s foot - the tinea fungus. It thrives in warm, moist
conditions which is a good description of the average bloke’s pants.
Wash with unperfumed soaps, dry thoroughly and avoid tight nylon
underpants. (Sorry, Superman.) See your GP if the problem persists.
Why is my penis
smelly/covered in white bits?
Wash it. The foreskin has a
natural lubricant underneath it called smegma. This helps you and your
partner during sex. But if you don’t wash regularly – once a day, no
more - it can become unpleasant and smelly appearing as blotchy
white bits. If left, this can become infected and cause irritation and
balanitis.
Why is my penis dribbling
a discharge?
If your penis produces something
other than urine or semen. it could well be a sign of a sexually
transmitted disease (STD). Other signs of an STD include itching or
lumps and pain when peeing. Click
here for more on STDs.
Can the penis break?
It can fracture if it bashes into
an immovable object when erect. The most common cause is probably the
woman’s pubic bone. It can be healed through surgery and splints.
Apparently I had
hypospadias when I was a baby. What is that?
In hypospadias, the opening of the
urethra - from which the male urinates and ejaculates - appears in
the wrong place, either on the head, shaft or underside of the penis.
The usual estimate is that hypospadias affects one in 300 male
babies but the evidence is that it is becoming more common. It can
usually be corrected by surgery before the age of two. Click
here for more on hypospadias written by a man with the condition.
I
know the little wrigglers make babies but how?
Well, it's quite a feat - a
300,000,000 to 1 shot.
Sperm are tadpole-shaped and
about 0.05mm long. From puberty onwards, at least 1,000 sperm a minute
are manufactured in the testicles. They take about two and half months
to mature and spend the last couple of weeks in the epididymis.
Sperm swim at six inches a second
but at the point of ejaculation they are propelled a lot faster - about
28mph along with the rest of the seminal fluid. Two minutes after
entering the female, they're at the cervix and five minutes later at the
fallopian tubes. During the most fertile part of the female menstrual
cycle (when the egg is released - usually between the 12th and 18th
day), this journey is much easier because at this time there is
plenty of fertile mucus around for the sperm to live off. They can
survive like this for a week.
The average ejaculation contains
200-300 million sperm but it only takes one to fertilise the egg. (Just
as well as only about 40 of them will get anywhere near the end of the
race.)
As well as fertilising the egg,
the sperm contains the chromosomes which will determine the baby’s
sex.
Is it true that sperm
counts are falling?
It appears to be. Research suggest
that in the last fifty years or so, the number of sperm in the
average western male’s semen has halved.
Today, about one in seven Britons
will seek advice on pregnancy difficulties at some time in their lives.
The male will be the cause of the problem in around half of these cases.
(About 70% of male infertility problems are caused by a low sperm
count.)
All the following can reduce sperm
count:
- anabolic steroids (very
severely)
- anti-arthritis drugs
- alcohol
- cocaine
- chemotherapy
- frequent marijuana use
- low levels of minerals such as
zinc
- low levels of vitamins,
particularly vitamin C
- smoking (reduces the sperm’s
life expectancy and sense of direction)
- some other prescription drugs
(this includes, according to research from Queen's University,
Belfast published in April 2004, so-called potency drugs like
viagra which is a good argument against 'recreational' use of these
drugs by men who might want to start families.)
- stress
- a vasectomy which may not be as
reversible as is sometimes believed.
What is a vasectomy?
A vasectomy is an operation in
which the two tubes that carry the sperm from the testicles, the vas
deferens, are cut and the ends heat sealed to stop the sperm escaping.
The procedure takes about 20 minutes under local anaesthetic and is
not, theoretically, painful (although malehealth has heard from
many men would argue this point).
All surgery carries a risk of
infection or worse. Once the seminal vesicles are empty, a vasectomy is
the single best method of contraception (99.8% effective). Used properly
condoms are 98% effective.
Why
is one testicle hanging lower than the other?
Good question. But we're all like
that. It's 100% normal.
How do I check my balls
for lumps?
It’s pretty easy. It’s best to
examine your testicles after a warm bath or shower.
- Support your balls in the palm
of one hand. Note the size and weight of your testicles. This will
help you to detect any changes in the future.
- Find the epididymis, the tube
that carries sperm to the penis. This can be felt at the top and
back of each testicle. This is one lump that is supposed to be
there.
- Now examine each testicle in
more detail by rolling it between your fingers and thumb. Press
firmly but gently to feel for any lumps, swellings or changes in
firmness.
Examine
yourself every couple of months or when you feel like it. Testicular
cancer is very uncommon so don’t get obsessed with it. But if you do
find anything unusual, don’t wait for it to disappear or start
throbbing - see your doctor.
The picture should show you what
you need to know. But if you want to see a video of it (along with many
other attractions such as Jonathan Ross with his hand down his pants and
snooker player Steve Davis blasting his balls around the table) click
here.
Is testosterone made in
the testicles?
Yes. Testosterone is the most
important of the male hormones. (The ovaries produce it in lower levels
in women.)
It is responsible for muscle, bone
and sexual development as well as sex drive. At puberty, it makes makes
the voice drop and the penis, testicles and facial and pubic hair
grow.
In the prostate gland,
testosterone is broken down into the related hormone dihydro-testosterone
which appears to be involved in baldness and enlarged prostate.
Testosterone levels fall slightly
with age. Some men - particularly those with high levels to begin with -
can effectively have half as much testosterone in their blood at 80 as
at 20. It may lead to loss of muscle tone and bone strength and an
increase in weight and the risk of heart disease and diabetes. Whether
reduced testosterone is also the cause of the sluggishness, loss of
libido and depression that some middle-aged men experience is debateable
but it is worth thinking about. Testosterone replacement therapy is
available but, while trials continue, many doctors are sceptical.
Can you boost testosterone
levels naturally?
Yes. Taking more exercise and
having more sex gets the hormones going. Also fat reduces the amount of
testosterone available to the body so losing weight and cutting down on
fatty foods and beer may help.
Vitamin and mineral deficiencies
can worsen hormonal problems. Eat more seeds (particularly pumpkin and
sunflower seeds), shellfish, beans, yoghurt and lean meat. These are
high in zinc - the mineral essential for testosterone production.
Ginseng, stinging nettles and the South American herb Muira Puama are
also reputed to help.
Tool-kit
is an introduction to your tackle in which we try to answer the common
questions. If you want further information, malehealth has excellent
sections in its A-Z of Health on penis
problems, prostate
problems, infertility,
sexual
problems, sexually-transmitted
diseases, and testicle
problems.
There is also a general
introduction to sexual
health in its broadest sense in the Lifestyle and stuff
section and feature articles on why
it is important to tell your doctor if you have erection problems and
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about sex can make it betterwhy only tal
There are also question in the Ask
The Doc section and lots of links under Second
Opinion.
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